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Originally posted by christiangirl
LOL, GUYS!!! Come on, you guys are too much, I'm serious! I don't know, I want to just sever ties altogether, but...*deep sigh* it's difficult. When we were together, he was REALLY depressed (wish I'd known that beforehand) and he said a lot to imply that he'd hurt himself if we broke up (What the hell else could, "I refuse to go on living without you" mean?!). It was a lot of drama, talking to the pastor before I broke up with him, to make sure someone could look out for him. Now, with his grandmother gone, he's 10x worse. He can get really scary if I let this go on too long, but I don't know how to break this off without him snapping. Whatever I do, I need to do it fast. I can't lie to him, too many people at church are in my business, somebody would blurt out the truth to him.
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NO, you definitly need to sever ties completely. He needs help, and you're not the one who can give it to him. He's obviously in need of a professional. This is not healthy and there is nothing you can do for him and staying with him will only make it worse on you because he knows he can manipulate you.
Do it right now. Change you're cell phone #, delete any emails from him. If you have a land line, don't take any of his calls.