[preciousjeni]

Dang y'all! Ugh! Ok - I've talked to her on the level of "I'm not as social as you are and I really don't have time to do anything right now." So, I'm going to have to get to the level of "You're coming by too much and I really prefer to be alone." Then, see where to go from there...

It's so much easier to do things gently when more people are around who know the situation. I feel like most of the time it's easier to hear news you don't want to hear from friends than from the person who's in the situation with you.

You have confirmed what I already knew!! I really was hoping that there'd be an easier way.