My dad does the same thing with J.W.s.
Ok - unfortunately, we don't have RAs in that sense. We have an ARD (assistant residential director) married couple. They don't handle things like this because it's a graduate dorm.
I just don't have it in me to hurt someone when she's down. However, at some point, she'll knock on my door one too many times and I'll open it and say, "You're driving me crazy. I DON'T want to go out. I DON'T want to give you money. I DON'T want to sit here and talk you again about sex and explain what FGM is and why it's horrible. I DON'T want to listen to you whine about how little money you have when you spend your money on frivilous things. And, I DON'T think you are as confident as you claim to be."
It's now turning into a game. The more she calls and knocks, the less I want to see her. And, she's getting more insistent with it. For now, I'm going to have to leave her alone and see if she stops.
Seriously, if she stops the stalking, I might be inclined to hang out with her (because she needs a normal person to talk with - and she IS my sister in Christ). You know what I'm saying? It's not that I hate her by any means but she just so NEEDY!
I feel like her boyfriend or something. Now I know how guys feel when we smother them.