[PhoenixAzul]

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. During my pledge period, he was so afraid they were going to force me to have sex with frat boys and drink and smoke and whatever. When he finally met the lunatics I call sisters, I think he finally understood why I took it all so seriously. He finally got over the fact that I wasn't being forced to give up what I believed in to join.

On the other hand, I think that he wishes he had joined one, just because he sees the fun I have, and the fun I have with the fraternity guys at Otterbein. I'm always hanging out with a couple of guys here, and I think he feels left out because he graduated from a school that didn't have greek life and he lives out of state from me. Meh. I always joke that he is a member of Rho Alpha Tau (PAT) because that is his first name. Lame, I know.