[Tippiechick]

How bad for you to be subjected to being in the same category as the "fat, hideous ones."

You say you want potential rushees to be aware of what rush is like at a competitive Southern school. Yes, they may not be invited back to the majority of groups. They may have a harder time because of not knowing what rush is like and how to prepare. But, if they drop their notions of how rush "should" go they might actually find a house that is a great fit.

You said it yourself: you were ALMOST universally cut. Get a grip. There are girls who ARE universally cut. Don't sit here and tell everyone what a HORRIBLE experience you had. You made a choice to end your rush experience because you didn't have every sorority knocking on your door with invitations. You had TWO houses asking you to come back. But, you didn't want to be in the same category as the fat, hideous ones.

Sorry. My give-a-damn's busted.