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Originally posted by TheEpitome1920
Hmmm...
I think there is a misconception that hetreosexuals don't make their sexuality known. It's a form of privilege, in my opinion. We live in a society where being hetrosexual is the norm and majority so we don't have to shout from the rooftops that we are hetrosexual.
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Too true... or as one Brother put it - Everone just assumes that anyone they meet is hetreo unless said person does, says or acts in a way to question thier sexual oreintation.
As for a gay man joining - it's a complicated issue; simplistically yes a gay man can and should join if they meet the ideals and expectations of the chapter/org.... and now the complicated point: if they are joining as a stunt, or try an pick up (within the chapter), or to purposefully "rock the boat" then i'd say no - because while none of the above are technically against the policies or ideals of LCA they are against the spirit in my opinion. I all boils down again to the basic concept of I tend to judge a person on who they are not what they are...