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Originally posted by NinjaPoodle
[B]Events, not Rush. There's a huge difference. Just a thought, that's fine to go to different orgs events but dont EXPECT a warm reception if RusheeGirl had been attending a number of NPHCSorority A's events (events that count like fundraisers, community service etc where people SEE YOU) and then show up to NPHC SororityB's events (parties don't count). It looks SUSPECT. That's how it is, I didn't make the rules.
Maybe herein lies the problem...If an interested lady is researching orgs to see which org she is most interested in, best suits her, etc. one would think she should attend public events, not only to meet sisters, other interests etc., but to be servicing the community in general. And if atttending multiple events across the different orgs is taboo, then chances are she is going to stereotype, and/or perpetuate the stereotypes that exist about the different orgs because she didn't take the time to learn what they are really about. Would anyone want an uniformed woman as a member of their org?
Does having not made the rules, mean one can't stand up to them or change them?
