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I wouldn't force my daughter to be a Phi Mu... I wouldn't make her feel bad if she didn't either.
I know of too many stories where it was so hard on the PNM if they were a legacy and wanted to go somewhere else...
It was really hard on one of my classmates--her sister was a member in one of the sororities (an active member) while her mother was a member of another sorority(all on the same campus). there were lots of tears, and it was hard on everyone when the girl joined the sorority her mom was in. It worked out though, because she would have not fit into the other sorority.
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