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It seems to me that legacies can get a little out of hand sometimes. My big is a 3rd generation ADPi and was released from all other sororities quite early. Her little sister will too when she goes through recruitment this next year. There was a girl in a friend of mine's recruitment group who was a 4th generation legacy but because the oldest sororities on campus have more legacies than quota coming in some years, they have to release some of them, and this girl just happened to be one they didn't like . So this poor girl not only felt like she let down her entire family, but she had nowhere else to go.
I realize that I might just not know what it feels like to have the legacy, but I would honestly be a little upset with my mom is she had practically forced me to join her GLO and not let me find for myself what she found. I think for the most part they were just so thrilled I decided to go greek, where I ended up wasn't the biggest issue. But then, that may come from that fact that I have a family member in half the NPC sororities on campus. When I have a daughter I would love for her to be an ADPi here, but who knows what the chapter will be like then or if she fits into it. I want her to be happy, whatever GLO she may join or even if she just wants to be a GDI.
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