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Old 06-13-2005, 05:55 PM
Wonderful1908 Wonderful1908 is offline
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I get it!
I have realized that life is to short to constantly feel the pressure of conforming to this ideal woman we envisioned ourselves at when we were 16! An immaculate, well spoken, mover-shaker, every hair in place, huge(clean) home, perfect kids, perfect husband, financially ballin', career, sexy, domestic, independent, great cooking, in shape, goddess!!!

So I aspire to be the best at those categories not perfect in those categories. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO HER AND HER!!!

I hired a maid....best move in a while!!

Have decided to take more trips!

Do things for me more often.

Spend my money on the 80/10/10 plan. 80% operates my life, I pay myself 10%, and 10% goes to God! I want to have nice things and I do, but Gods time is a better time.

I realize I am 27, own a nice home, have 2 beautiful kids, a good job, a nice shape, a good husband, belief in God. Why should I ever not feel golden? Why as women do we allow ourselves to feel anything but Golden?
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