I still think you are beautiful, "disseration lines" or not!
I'll be honest, I can't even imagine you red. Strawberry blonde sounds perfect for you. Also, I would guess that red would mean serious root and conditioning maintenance?
Prescriptives is wonderful. They have gorgeous colors that go on like a dream. They also have almost unlimited foundation formulations and shades--which is a bonus! I'll be honest and tell you up front it's pricey. Personally I hate foundation. I hate it with a passion and have never found one I could stand wearing. I love love LOVE makeup, just hate foundation. Now, I like tinted moisturizers. They add a bit of color or "glow" and don't tend to crease or settle like a liquid foundation. Now that it's summer I will wear a powder bronzer, but if you try that make sure you pick a shade that complements your skin tone.
What about something like this from Origins (if you have a Origins counter near you?) I've never had a problem with anything from Origins.
http://www.origins.com/templates/pro...UCT_ID=PROD123
Is there a Sephora store *anywhere* near you? If so, I suggest going there and telling them exactly what you told us. One opened up here recently and it's incredible.
Last question--what are you using for skin care? Do you use an exfoliating cleaner, or are they too rough on your skin? What about a facial mask? Sometimes we forget that exfoliating is a good thing as we get older. We just need something more gentle now. What about professional facials? Give one a try (making sure they know of any skin allergies or sensitivities first!) It's amazing what one professional facial can do for you AND your skin!
Hope some of this helps you a little bit. Remember, piling on the makeup will only make the lines and wrinkles more noticable. Also, the more you wear it the easier it gets. The right eyeliner and mascara with good lips can go a long way! Oh, another tip--we're not 18 any more, so stay away from the super shiny/shimmery/glossy lip look. A little shimmer is good, a lot just accents everything we want to minimize!
Much love and Roses!!!!!