[trojangal]

some years ago, some friends I knew had three daughters. The oldest was a Kappa at SMU, and the second one went thru recruitment at a school in Alabama. The whole family was hoping that she would go to a certain sorority that mom and all the aunts were members of, but it was not meant to be. Actually, the girl was dropped by this group, and we happened to be at the house the day that Mom got the phone call. It wasn't a pretty sight. Regardless of that, she did find her home in another group, and was so happy to be with the girls. The youngest sister after seeing what happened with #2 told Mom she didn't want to rush , and as far as I know, she never joined.

I'm going to the first Greek in my family--and I would let my daugther make that decision. I would love for her to have the opportunity, but will let her make her own decisions.