[honeychile]

This may sound weird or utopian, but when I was an active, many Alpha Delta Pi mothers brought their daughters to visit with us - always at least a year before they were going to school. If the mother is active with the Alumnae Association, chances are that the daughter has seen & met many of the chapter beforehand anyhow - and had an idea of whether or not they'd fit in. I know that I was at the house where I was a legacy several times prior to starting school, and felt that I really fit in - until I rushed. I'm really glad that my parents weren't freaked that I went to a different house!