Thanks for all your replies. I'm going to print them out and show them to her when I see her Friday.
Exactly what she does on Wall Street, I don't know.. I just know it has something to do with foreign currency. She explained it to me once, but it is so "inside" and complicated it took her a good ten minutes to explain
Yes, she does have a VERY high powered and high paying position. She's a widow with two kids and an au-paire (spelling?) and has been at her company for 15 years so it's not easy to just walk-away and start over. Plus-- she's in her 50's now. My heart goes out to her, which is why I'm trying to gather up some suggestions.
And yes, it is a shame that there seem to be no laws protecting workers from tyrants like him. I love the idea of documenting and seeing an attorney. I'll certainly pass that on to her along with everyone elses's comments.
Thanks again!