Saying that all frat guys are bad at relationships is like saying that all sorority girls are stuck up/ spoiled/ sluts, etc. It's just not true. Although their perspective on relationships may be somewhat influenced by being in a frat, not every frat guy is a player. I think some guys in general (frat or no) are just bad at relationships, just like some girls in general are bad at relationships. My ex was really bad at relationships( hence the term "ex"
), but I've been dating one of his fraternity brothers for 3 1/2 years now, and he was never a player/ asshole/ bad at relationships. I think that you'll always find guys who are jerks-they may be a frat boy, and they may not-but you'll also always find guys that are awesome!