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The only guy I dated seriously in college (and am still dating) is a member of Sigma Chi, and I wouldn't have it any other way. The fraternity has caused him to grow and mature so much during our college years, and it has been so great to watch his journey. It's not just him, either: the Sigma Chis at my school are just great guys.
Sure, we both had really busy schedules, but we love it that way. There were many semesters when we were both holding high-profile EC offices, but it's really nice to date someone who has the same commitment to an organization as you do. Our weekends were consumed by formals, date parties, and philanthropy events, but again, we liked it that way.
And I never thought of his time with his brothers as immature male bonding - we're in college to have a good time, and I completely supported him doing goofy stuff with his brothers. I'm glad he grew so close to all of them and made such interesting memories with them. I will always think fondly of him and all of his brothers.
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