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Here is my penny's worth of thoughts:
The positive side:
The guy learns time mangement skills, leadership skills, and organizational skills that will translate to skills are useful in the adult world and his future care.
The negative aspects:
Any time any group of guys get together they are going to act imature. It is like the male bonding thing. They are with thier buds. Even those that graduate college continue with this silly ritual-it's called the golf leagues and that occassionaly emergency reason he has to go see his bud (along with five other closest buds on a Sat night). Oh don't get me wrong-they are crazy about you-if they weren't they would not have married you. You don't mad-you just laugh because this is how G-d has created them. It happens to non-Greeks too. I think it is hormonal.
The super positive part:
For some they continue this immature male bonding ritual until their mid-thirties then they start beginning very involved with the family. It is really cool. They start doing really nice things like making sure they put the toliet seat down because they really care. Making sure all the cars have a full tank of gas in the morning. They become super responsible at home. All those great organizational skills they learned in the frat translates to both work and home. Oh it is wonderful. And the best part-they don't outgrow this phase.
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