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They are supposed to be neutral. If the PNMs know which sorority they are in they may:
1 Pick that one because they like their counselor
2 Feel obligated toward that one even though they may like another one better
Half of the reason these girls get so crazy about it, is probably because it is supposed to be forbidden. Otherwise they probably would not care.
We had one PNM last year who sat with her Gamma Chi for 2 hours trying to figure out what she was before she signed her bid card. She would just make comments and try to gauge her reaction or ask questions that only members of the sorority were likely to know. I didn't realize what was going on (why she was taking so long) or I would have probably put her with another Counselor so she would sign the d**n card. The counselor broke down in tears after the girl left--she had put the other sorority. Which was funny because everything that she liked about the counselor were generally traits found in the other chapter.
did that make sense or did I just ramble too much
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