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I disagree with most of what's been said.
(1) Move out. Now. In with friends, in a shitty little efficiency, whatever you need to do. At 23 it is not healthy for your growth as a person to continue living at home. (Not saying it can't be done - just that this clearly isn't a workable situation.)
(2) Do not apologize for disappointing them, explain your decision, etc. If your stance is, "I'm an adult, I make my own decisions," then BE AN ADULT. You made your choice, it was the right one for you, end of story. Smile, change subject, if it comes up again, leave the room.
Sounds like you need a little distance from Mom & Dad -- what gets discussed in Mom's Bible study class should NOT be a concern for you!
And get a livejournal. With a creative password. You don't *have* to give people the link, you know.
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