[AKA_Monet]

Craig, sweetheart,

Are you really ready for all of this? Homegirl is playing for keeps--are you?

I kinna agree with winnieb on this one. It's jacked but, hey, that's the way you roll...

As one of those possessive insecure sensitive women, I am working on myself and letting go of a lot of things. It is hard and it is probably easier to be alone for the "right" reasons than to be with someone for the "wrong" ones... But, hey, I am doing just fine.

The fact is, your cleaning lady girlfriend is trying to fill her void of neediness by using you as the bait. Now depending on the "craftiness" of her abilities, which would amaze even me if you couldn't see right through her, then eventually she will be trying to putty whoop you... Given that ain't no woman will never ever make you her slut puppy, boy toy, it may be best that you tell girlfriend that you like to play and your playing time isn't up yet...

Besides, sex in a formal relationship is not everything... But, money is... So, what you outta do is get girlfriend to the tantric educator and make her learn some moves quick if you want to keep her in the loop for serious relationships. Meanwhile, you better have enough money to pay for her shopping trips at that new mall in Altamonte Springs with the Needless Markup (Neiman Marcus) and high end stores so that when you do get busted with the hoebag tramp who is having your baby, then you can buy the wifey that 10-carat, color as your like it, platinum ring and bracelet set for forgiveness--Kobe-style...

That's my opinion, though...