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I was a Rho Gamma last spring during our Formal Recruitment (we have deferred recruitment here) and I also had a facebook account. What some of us as Rho Gams did was share friends lists - just start adding everyone you know on facebook even if they're not a super close friend. I go to a small school but I had just about everyone from all the chapters along with a lot of non-greeks as well, and then I hid my clubs and I unjoined groups to keep my identity secret.
It worked pretty well - when we gave the PNMs a survey at the end of recruitment they were pretty much split between my own chapter and two others that are similar type of women, based on personality.
I don't think you should be completely anxious and neurotic about whether or not they find out who belongs to who, especially if you tried to hide your identity. Some PNMs asked boys, mostly members of my boyfriend's fraternity who I don't talk to often and didn't know I was disaffiliated, and they told them. If they really want to find out your identity they probably will.
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