[ISUKappa]

Originally posted by blueangel
Val-- you have an incredible talent for taking my words out of context. Once again, the original poster felt he is the ONE, and wants to marry him. So again, my advice is that after two years, it's time to move on if he won't commit.

Technically, you're taking the OP's words out of context as well:

Originally posted by UlChiOCutie26
Ok, I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. There has been a discussion between us lately about taking the next step. He keeps telling me that "as soon as _____, as soon as_____" It's starting to drive me nuts!

What's the deal? I am thinking that he is afraid to take the next step (marriage, of course) into our relationship. I am in no hurry, but I atleast need to know if he has been thinking about it as much as I have. I have tried to talk to him about it more, but he seems to change the subject on me. I really do love him and want this to work!

Also, I just got a new job and he seems to be very jealous. Around my family he is always saying, " I am so happy for her and her new job." But when we talk about it, he is like, "it's an awful lot of travel and being away from home; it's not fair that you are going to make more money than me."

What gives?? Anyone been in this situation before??

Nowhere does she say he's THE ONE. She says: "I am in no hurry, but I atleast need to know if he has been thinking about it as much as I have. I have tried to talk to him about it more, but he seems to change the subject on me. I really do love him and want this to work!"