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Originally posted by blueangel
<<To advise an online community that has many members under the age of 21 that if they've been dating 2 years and aren't engaged that there's something wrong with their relationship, is silly at best and dangerous at worst. >>
And who did that? I was advising someone who wanted to get married, but has been in a relationship with a man who is shuffling his feet about marriage for three years. The logical thing to do with a man who does not want to commit-- when you're looking for marriage is to cut him loose.
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Originally posted by blueangel
1. The two year rule: If a ring isn't on your finger after two years of dating, you need to move on and say, NEXT!
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You even call it a rule. Rules generally are things that apply to more than one person. If that's not what you mean, then be more careful of how you word things.