<<Well, the fact that you're looking at Dr. Phil's website is scary enough.>>
And why is that? I did a google search and the Herald article came up. I clicked on it, and it was posted on Dr. Phil's website.
<<To advise an online community that has many members under the age of 21 that if they've been dating 2 years and aren't engaged that there's something wrong with their relationship, is silly at best and dangerous at worst. >>
And who did that? I was advising someone who wanted to get married, but has been in a relationship with a man who is shuffling his feet about marriage for three years. The logical thing to do with a man who does not want to commit-- when you're looking for marriage is to cut him loose.
<<And yes, this thread was to provide the OP with help that she requested. It wasn't to spout a bunch of statistics and judgmental cliches, which probably made her feel even WORSE about her situation.>>
I didn't provide the statistics until my opinion was challenged.