To clear up some things ...
the Alcohol Policy is there to also supplement state/provincial laws (remember, we ARE international - only 14 NPC groups are) - so if it's against the law to drink - AOII abides by that ... talk to the Chapter President about being the example for the chapter by being smart, and making sure her chapter leads the way in being Smart Cookies too!
One thing that been bothering me for years ... during recruitment, we expound that we are non-alcoholic/no pressure to drink etc .... yet some of the first things we do is turn around, and do an mixer with alcohol ... could we look more like hyprocates? No wonder women drop out during their New Mmeber period because it looks like we can't even stand by what we say ... if anyone else has thoughts about this, let'er rip ... it's just very sad to see outstanding campus leaders who WON'T come near a sorority with a 10-foot pole because what we say isn't always what we mean ...