I think that she might just need a place to vent anonymously. When you have a long term relationship, family and friends have a vested interest in seeing you get married. She is probably not getting the best advice from the people in real life so she vents on GC.
The thing is, you have mentioned before that the problems run deeper than just him not wanting to pay for bc. With the other information you have shared, there is a pattern here. I'm not going to tell you what to do or think. If I were in your position, I would give this situation a lot of thought and make some difficult decisions.
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