Oh Lauren. I am so sorry you're going through this right now. All I can offer is that you give him the space he needs. As for the house, that's a decision you're going to have to make as a couple b/c you don't want to buy the house & God forbid something bad happens. These little white lies may seem harmless at the time but they can fester over time. I told my fiance some little white lies while we were dating but as things grew serious, I had to fess up. I completely understand when you say that it feels terrible. It is the most awful feeling to have.
I guess lucky for me, he knows me so well that he knows when I'm lying b/c apparently, I'm terrible at it. That's a good thing in a relationship but bad when calling in to work b/c you go see Star Wars.
Anyway, I hope things work out for you sweetie. Keep us updated.
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