I think what it boils down to is that since we aren't engaged, he doesn't want to be "married" yet. And yes, I have asked him numerous times to pay a little towards my pills, since we don't use condoms. I am allergic (and thats a fact). Even 5 bucks would help out. I just don't think it's fair that I pay all of it; it takes two to tango. I don't know.
In my opinion, I think that he doesn't want to feel married yet. I guess if we were engaged it would be a different story. Here lately, it seems like something is bugging him so therefore, he is an ass to me. I am sick of putting up with it. Something must be done.