[Rudey]

Originally posted by CarolinaCutie
To play devil's advocate...

I suppose if I were him, I'd be wondering what spurred this sudden need for financial contribution to your birth control needs. Are you in a period of financial hardship? Because if not, I guess I'd want to know why it was a big deal all of the sudden. If I haven't contributed towards the purchase of birth control pills for the past 5 years, what has changed in our relationship that makes you want me to pay half now?

And if you didn't have a very convincing answer to that, I think my curiosity would be peaked. I don't know exactly what I'd be curious about, but I'd think that maybe something was just a little off, and I'd question your motives.

That said, I don't think that asking for half is generally wrong. It seems fair to me!

Have you ever asked your boyfriend to pay half?

-Rudey