Wow, I am so out of the loop! Cheryl, I had not read your thread on AI, and have not really talked to you on GC ever, so I didn't really know your situation. I was wondering how a 6 week New Member Ed. period would result in not being initiated until the Fall! Sorry this is so belated, but welcome home to KD!
Definitely check out
Annie's Kappa Delta Online Website. It's done by Annie (AKA kdonline on Greek Chat) and it is really great. On that site, you can subscribe to the KD Newsletter. It is a bunch of submissions from KDs around the country regarding various things, such as job hunting, relocating, AA events, chapter events, announcements, etc. I get the newsletter sent directly to my email.
I would say you are allowed to do pretty much everything except use AOT and the crest. Save up for your diamond pin...I vote for some serious bling!
KD Love & AOT,
Shae