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I don't think it's so much as age as it is maturity and responsibility. Although I've never been close to the altar, but I have seen people divorce after three months. I think people need to learn that marriage = commitment. Living the single life while married, will never work. I also believe communication is key. Learning to talk to your mate instead of bad mouthing them to your family and friends doesn't help especially when they give you one-sided advice. A Soror I know is getting married next year and they're about to complete spiritual counseling. Last week's topic was on "Leave and Cleave". Basically leaving all of your ex's, friends, mama, etc. behind.
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