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Originally posted by BetteDavisEyes
Hi everyone. A while ago I had posted about my cousin who got married last September & did not invite my family b/c she told us that her fiance's (now husband) family from Boston were not used to being around "people like us." I'm assuming this meant California Latinos b/c that's what we are. She invited my mom & one of my sisters (I have 6 sisters & 1 brother).
Now, I am wondering if I should invite her & her hubbie to my wedding this December. My mom thinks I should out of respect for my aunt & uncle who helped raise me but my sisters say I shouldn't invite her b/c she disrespected & insulted our entire family by excluding us from her wedding.
I don't want to start a family war over this so I think I should be the bigger person & just invite her & not bring up her wedding but everytime I think about it, I get pissy.
Any advice and/or opinions? I would really appreciate any and all help on this b/c my family is biased as well as my fiance. He thinks I shouldn't invite them but I am inviting her parents & two brothers so I'm stuck.
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Honestly, I'd take the high road and be that better person. If you can afford two more people at your wedding, you should invite them.
Not doing so would only make you as bad as she was when she excluded you from her wedding.
A family war is not worth it. Trust me, because I know all too well about that.
I wouldn't let something as petty as this to get in the way of YOUR day.