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Originally posted by Wonderful1908
How many of you who feel this men despair are single? Sometimes society causes many single people to feel like they are in the outside looking in. Is it really a husband we want or just a happy healthy relationship? I have been in a relationship for 5 years, if you would have told me five years ago that I would be with someone for that long without a ring, I would have laughed! However as I mature and become older I realize the importance of a strong relationship that no ring can foster and develop. I wonder do we as women want companionship or a spouse? We often get the two distorted, and begin to believe in order to be happy we need a husband, when in fact what we need is happiness.
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I was shocked to see I had been part of this thread! This was 5 years ago! Ladies, our God is a God of patience and sends us the right person at the right time. He is also the God of suddenly!!! I promise you this seemed no more than a year or two that I originally typed this. However in that time that man did ask me to marry him, we bought a house, had a daughter and are living day to day. So God has a plan for everybody, but now that I am married I can tell you this: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT SOMEBODY HAS BEEN THROUGH to be with that person. Don't just look at marriage because trust me the surface is just that, the surface. In every moment you want a spouse God sees your heart, for every lonely moment think of the ALL the happy momnets God will bring you for your trouble!