Quote:
Originally posted by AXO4Life
Why should I wait for him to make a decision about my future?
|
Answer: Don't wait for him. I'm really glad you though about all that because it's true. Don't wait for him. If some guy comes along and he seems willing to meet you halfway - I'd say go for it. Don't wait on pins & needles waiting to see if Mr. INeedABreak is going to change his mind and decide if his relationship with you really is worth working for.
There was this phrase my grandma used to tell me --If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours. If not, it was never yours to begin with.
This break may take a week... maybe 2... maybe even a few months.
With my current boyfriend (who I've been dating most all of college) we had a 6-month breakup a couple of years ago. During that time I did go out and date a few guys, but believe it or not, we were actually *friends* during the breakup time... and ended getting back together after 6 months. During that time I learned a lot about myself, and I learned a lot about him too. So maybe ya'll will get back together? Who knows? But don't wait around for it to happen.