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One day, there will be at least two bittybugs. My dad hopes to be able to field almost half a football team between my offspring and my sister's. But that is many moons from now, when we are married and (hopefully) financially able. And honestly, if the future Mr. Bug is well-off enough, I wouldn't mind being a stay-at-home soccer-mom type. But I doubt that will happen.
Parenting is like marriage, IMO: it's one of those things you do when you know you're ready for it and so is your partner. If you don't want 'em, don't have 'em. We have contraceptives for that. It's your choice, nobody else's. If they happen, take it and roll with it--I was "supposed" to come along about 5 years after I did, but my parents still did an awesome job. If you want 'em, have 'em. But make sure you can support them emotionally/financially.
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