There is an old saying, you gather more flys with honey than you do vinegar. Dejadeva, you seem to be full of vinegar. However, you were just treated in a horrible way by your BF and you went through a very stressful time-rush. Everyones feelings are rather raw these days. IT's UNDERSTANDABLE! The people on these boards are so supportive. Everyone has had a disagreement with another member's opinion, but the boards continue on. The resources here are offered to you with open arms. James and Tom , Barbara, Carnation and so many others I can't begin to name, have experience and insight that they offer freely. Does everyone agree? No, but the conversation remains respectful-most "keep their gloves on". Go back and read what James said. No one wants you to leave. We all have had moments when our emotions got the better of us. This is a community and like any community, there will be differences that cause friction, but the truth is, each and everyone would reach out to you...if you let them.
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