No, no, LovelyIvy, this scenario is not hard at all. My man for four years posted a personals ad on the internet...? It would be on, Girlfriend. Back in the day (before I was mature

) he and I would be doing some SERIOUS arguing while at the same time, I would be doing some SERIOUS assessing. If my man felt the need to post a personals ad on the internet (or any where else for THAT matter), I would really have to think about if he REALLY is MY man. Enough said.