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I have a "B" list BUT if I am inviting people from a family, I invite them all not just pick & choose which family members are on the "A" list & the "B" list.
My "B" list consists of co-workers & other friends that are not that close. The "B" list is people you would like to have at your wedding but b/c of finances and/or size, you just can't have unless space opens up. Yeah it sucks b/c I know I have been "B" listed once before but I still went & enjoyed myself. The bride was happy to see me regardless & sent the nices Thank You card.
My "A" list is all the families & friends we definitely want there.
EDIT: My wedding coordinator told me that proper etiquette indicates that if I choose to have the "A" & "B" lists, the invitations for "A" listers needs to be sent out 3 months before the wedding & the other invitations sent out a month and a half to 2 months before the wedding. You do NOT send them out a few weeks before. That is tacky.
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