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Originally posted by dzrose93
"Cute" can mean a number of things. The sisters who compliment a rushee on being "cute" may be referring to her personality, not necessarily her looks. As a collegiate, I participated in many rush parties and, as an alumna, I've observed many more. I can say from experience that beauty is not the main thing that sorority women look at when selecting their new members. We judge rushees on many of the same things that rushees judge us on: grades, participation in campus activities, personality, etc.
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I definitely agree with my sister Carrie on this one! I remember during one rush there was a PNM who went through who would never be anybody's definition of "pretty" or "hot" but everyone wanted her because, as we all said, "she's SO DAMN CUTE!". She was outgoing, friendly, asked lots or questions, and so frankly interested in what we all had to say.
No offense to Tibi, I'm sure you're a lovely young woman! I just meant that "cute" is usually used by rushers to describe the package as a whole, not the looks!