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Sparklii, one other thing that you need to consider. He now has an obligation to gain the trust of the new girlfriend. If he has discussed his past realtionship with you with the new gf she may have expressed a concern, call it jealousy if you will, to him about him associating with you. It is not at all uncommon. I have remained friends over the years with many past gf's, sometimes their husbands are not too happy about it although we may live thousands of miles away and I am nothing more than a friend. Do they feel threatened that I was part of their wifes life before they were around? I don't know. Some of the guys are cool with it, but many are not. On the other hand I have had gf's who do not wish me to have contact with old gf's, especially the single ones. If you put yourself in the situation you may understand it better. How would you feel if your new bf had his ex-gf calling him and wanting to talk and spend time together? Would you feel threatened by her? Would she be interupting any of your time with your new bf? It may be that you can rekindle the friendship once the new gf becomes more secure. Only time will tell.
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