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Old 04-28-2005, 09:40 PM
AKA_Monet AKA_Monet is offline
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HELP!!!

My brother has lost his DAYUM mind!!!

He has NOT been living with his wife for 2 months--they've been married for now ~5 years...

They just had a baby--~6 months old--cutest little fella in the world--acts JUST LIKE MY BROTHER DID when he was a baby... When he's tired, he sucks his thumb--just like my brother did... And he's LOUD--got a great set of pipes--just like my brother did... Just a happy little guy...

Well, my brother resents the fact that he now has responsibilities like fathering a child with his wife... So he's lost his DAYUM mind... There may be cheating with another woman going on. Oh yeah, he spends ~2-3 hours per day with his son, and says he loves him. But, when the kid goes to sleep, my brother takes off, outta his house that he pays a mortgage for and sleeps somewhere else--wherever that may be...

There are numerous other reasons why he's doing what he's doing that I cannot go into.

But what my brother said is that "it's amazing that after 7 years with being with a person, they still do not KNOW ME..." and then he said, "I'm tired of looking like the 'happy couple' in a $0.5 million dollar house, etc."

His wife says my brother is "clinically depressed" and acted a fool during the past holidays...

I am just blown away by the lunacy that I am so glad I live in another state and will not go down to see my family--including my parents without "intervention" because I cannot handle this dysfunction...

My brother forced my family and I to reconcile our innerselves so that he could run up under this woman--even though I KNEW he was not ready for a marital relationship, AND NOW he wants to call it quits because the going got tough???

That's summa the dumbest assed bullisht I eva heard!!!
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