I have done it 3 times. First time was in college after I crossed via Hotmail and I met this really nice guy and we used to have the best convos until I saw what he looked like

but it was my loss because I was looking with my eyes and not my heart.
Then last year or so I did it through Yahoo and none of the guys really sparked my attention. The ones that did reply were all about something I am not.
Then back in February I was BORED

so I did the BP dating but never checked any of the replies I received because I found out some of my students did the BP dating too and that was not going to work
Here is what my ad would say
if I were to do it now:
SBF with a big heart and a lot of love to give seeks a
SBMWNK (Single Black Man With No Kids) who is:
mentally and physically fit,
career/goal oriented,
intelligent,
ambitious,
loving,
mature,
devoted to BLACK issues and people,
spiritual,
NSNDOA (no smoking, no drugs, occasional alcohol),
likes to read,
watch movies (other than Master P and other drug flicks),
appreciates music and not just rap but R&B and GOSPEL,
sense of humor,
can stimulate my mind and my heart not just my body.
Only serious replies wanted between the ages of 27-32