i graduated from an all-female high school that above everthing else, taught us to be strong independant women. so when i joined my sorority, i feel that was part of me being strong. i'm surrounded by women who accept me as i am and care for me unconditionally. theyre willing to support me and give back to the community with me. to me thats what its all about. the sad thing is, when i told my "feminist" friends about joining DZ, a few of them were shocked that i feel into the mainstream "airhead/slut/snob sororiy thing" when they see the hard work my house give sto the community and the awesome grades we get.. they realized you can be a feminist with a bunch of sisters supporting you