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Originally posted by Little E
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To be honest, if I had found out my chapter 'researched' me, I would not have joined. That is too big brother(sister?) creepy for me.
alphaalpha- you totally have me right!! 
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GLad that we understand each other. Maybe cause we both had similar experiences in high school that college was all about being who we are and not what others think we are.
I do think that the research is kinda of weird and if i had gone through a rush and did not know that was done i would be super creaped out. Even if it was only good stuff that was told i would still wonder who talked to whom about me and what wrong info was given.
I do agree that each rush is different, but i would ask: How many people go through rush as LSU or Georgia and know that research has been done on them.
Also, ( I know this is long, sorry) there is a difference between someone actually being a scancy hoe and someone making up stories about them that do not go away. As an example, these 2 girls told the principle of my high school when i was in 9th grade that i stole money from a friend of theirs. well i did not and there was no proff. I had to be questioned by the police and everything. Well as with any small school everyone know about it and for years I was refered to as the girl who stole money from this other girl. Well would i want to go away to college and have a sorority hear this story, that again is IN NO WAY TRUE, and cut me because they heard that i stole and felt that my reputation was in question? No. I know this is a small example, but i have had many people make up stories about me, and like 95% of the stories were not close to the truth. I went to college to get away from that. I would never want to go through rush and have these stories catch up with me.