They kinda discussed this on Oprah today and addressed how in cases of the "fairy tale" love where people say "the minute I saw him I knew he was the one" "he swept me off my feet" etc should be warning signs. Basically implying that if he's too good to be true it probably is. You could possibly extend that to what this article is saying by perhaps arguing that guys who have a rap sheet or something to hide might put more of an effort in to win a girl over with charms in hopes that they will turn the other cheeck to their major flaws. And girls who are looking for guys who will treat them like in the fairy tales will fall for that.
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