Young Lady,
Just keep loving your man. His process will not last forever. If you truly love him and he truly loves you, love will last forever.
Just understand that he is seeking a lifelong commitment. So if you love him like you say you do, you need to just be there and respect what he what he is doing.
Who knows, by doing this, it may help you to also become a lifelong commitment.
I understand why you posted. I am sure you did not intend to put any orgs business out there. You just wanted to gain a little understanding.
Tell your man how you feel and what you did, so he knows. If he understands, that's all that matters. We have no right to judge your intentions over a computer terminal.
Patience is a virtue. He will have some free time sooner or later.
