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Old 04-22-2005, 01:35 AM
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I completly agree with what LIttle E has to say.

I think some people have gotten slightly away from what she was saying. I beleive she is talking about not wanting sororities to do research on you and base recruitment desicions based on who other people thought you were in High School. She was talking about (and i agree) that she was someone who people did not know and when she went away to college she wanted the opportunity to have sorority women judge her on who she was and not on who some people might think she is.

I completly agree with this idea. If you were to ask people from my High school about me they would "paint" a very different picture of who i am. I went to school were i went to school cause nobody else i knew was going to be there. I did not want the same "reputation" in college that i have had since the time i was in 4th grade and did something stupid that everyone still remembers to this day. I think that LIttle E is saying that this is what she feels like would happen if women in sororities would do research on her before she even got to campus and started rush.

I am sure that every one of us has had at least one person in our lives who have judged you on something you did that was taken wrong or you did when you were little. Now this same person would probably just say bad things about you, something like, Oh, debbie, she is really stupid. Oh my god she is soo sluttly i heard that she only spends time with guys cause she pays them to hang out with her (of course none of that is true). Anyway, there are people that i went to High school with that would say these things about me cause they said them to my face in high shcool. I really would not want to go to a school were the sororities did research on me and had heard some really bad things about (things that were not even close to being true) and based recruitment choices on what other people say about me.
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