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Old 03-01-2001, 12:59 AM
CrimsonTide4 CrimsonTide4 is offline
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Originally posted by Hootie:
Have you thought about going Greek yourself? Perhaps that would be very rewarding for you and then you could have a common bond. Plus you'll find sisterhood in a GLO to be lifelong. Their support and strength could help you in the future should things not go the way you want.
NOPE!! Sorry, I disagree with that reasoning for joining a GLO, especially a BGLO. DO NOT JOIN A SORORITY TO FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF!! You join a sorority because you are committed to their ideals and principles as well as sisterhood.
What I would recommend while your boyfriend is busy pursuing his interests is that you spend time with your friends, STUDY , work out, catch up on your sleep, read a book, etc. As Hootie said, joining a SORORITY is a life long endeavor and it should be pursued for more than just the SUPERFICIAL REASON as my man is busy joining a fraternity so I might as well ATTEMPT TO JOIN a sorority. We have too many people in our orgs who join for the wrong reasons and end up not contributing ANYTHING BENEFICIAL!!

I LOVE MY MAN, be strong and DO YOUR THING while your man is out doing his own. DO NOT LOSE WHO YOU ARE FOR A MAN, EVER!!
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