I applaud you ILoveMyMan by being patient with your man and by trying to understand what he's going through.
Similarly, people go through different changes once they enter college life and it often tears couples apart.
I, like the others, recommend getting involved in things for yourself. There is nothing worse than sitting around being lonely missing your man. Have you thought about going Greek yourself? Perhaps that would be very rewarding for you and then you could have a common bond. Plus you'll find sisterhood in a GLO to be lifelong. Their support and strength could help you in the future should things not go the way you want.
But either way, I've learned not to sit around and wait for a man. Do stuff for yourself and be your own person! You'll regret it and wonder where all your time went if you don't!
Good Luck, and lets remember that not EVERYBODY knows what is "okay" and "not okay" to talk about!
Greek Love,
Hootie
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What do you get when you cross and Alpha Omicron Pi and a Sigma Phi Epsilon? A beautiful Chi Omega!!!
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