You should always have a talk if only for your peace of mind. It will also help prevent those wierd little momentary lapses of reason that can destroy an embryonic relationship . . . like sleeping with another girl (often alcohol induced) and then saying," Well you and I weren't committed, (or) you didn't say you wanted to be exclusive".
AlphaChiGirl: Do Not assume that a relationship is exclusive with a guy, even if you have slept with him, without the talk. Us, men can be strange that way . . .
Don't flame me guys, I know I'm giving away secrets
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Originally posted by Jeff OTMG
Nothing is understood. Never assume anything. The 'talks' are necessary. Without them I would never know what was going on.  Relationships go through a number of stages and without those talks in between someone may go to another level, whether up or down, leaving the behind.
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